Things to Consider When Choosing a Divorce Attorney

February 4, 2022 Family Law

A divorce is a complex and stressful event in most people’s lives. Knowing where to turn can seem overwhelming. Finding a divorce attorney you can trust to protect and guide you through these difficult times is the first step. There are a few key things to consider when looking for the divorce attorney right for you.

Find an attorney who has experience with the type of divorce you’re going through.

When looking for a divorce attorney, be sure to find someone experienced with your type of case. For example, if you are getting divorced because your spouse cheated on you, it may be wise to find someone successful in adultery cases, not just general family law. Ask about cases similar to yours and the outcome of those cases. Be skeptical of high-pressure sales techniques and exaggerations of success. Your attorney should be upfront and honest. No divorce is perfect, and you should know going in what to expect. Search for reviews online, and don’t be afraid to ask for references. 

Honest communication with your attorney is critical. 

Not only is it important to have someone on your side you can trust, but you also need an attorney you are comfortable communicating with. Your attorney should be upfront and answer your questions honestly, even if the answer isn’t what you want to hear. You should feel knowledgeable and confident when making decisions. Many divorce cases end up in court, either because the spouses cannot agree on their own or because one spouse elects to challenge some aspect of the other’s case (child custody or support). When that happens, you need to be confident the person representing you truly understands what you want and has your best interests at heart. 

A lawyer should be able to provide accurate and upfront answers regarding billing. 

Divorces can be expensive, so your attorney should be upfront and honest about the fees associated with the services provided. Few divorces are cookie cutter. Your attorney probably can’t give you a final amount upfront, but you should still have a good idea of what to expect throughout the case. And don’t forget you often get what you pay for. So don’t just go with the cheapest. It might be tempting to opt for the lawyer who charges the least amount, but just because you can pay one lawyer less than another doesn’t mean it is the best choice for you. 

In Conclusion

Divorces are tough. Choosing the right person to help you navigate the process comes down to more than just the first ad you find under “divorce attorneys in my area.” Your attorney will be there with you from beginning to end, so do your research. Choose the attorney who has a proven track record when handling cases like yours, someone devoted to helping you understand the process and feel confident in your choices, and someone upfront about the investments of divorce.